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BRINGING SEXY BACK
A Couples’ Roadmap to Passion, Desire, and Satisfying Sex

Rekindle Intimacy and Build a More Satisfying Relationship

You dream (or maybe used to dream 😢) of a relationship full of passion, desire, and intimacy.

Deep down you believe that you and your partner have what it takes to achieve this!

Somewhere along the way, “life happened” and your sex life got pushed to the back burner.

You want to feel closer and more connected to your partner. 

You want sex to feel intimate, hot, and satisfying for both of you.

But, truth be told, you’re stuck in a rut!

Maybe you've been trying to communicate how you feel to your partner.

Racking your brain to get back to how it felt when you began your relationship.

But at the end of each day, one or both of you is feeling lonely or neglected, and you're definitely not doing the things you used to do during courtship.

Maybe you still feel like great friends, or excellent teammates, but there’s almost no passion.

Or maybe there's little connection even on a friendship level.

And frankly, there’s not much left in your tank.

You're wishing you had access to something to tell you where you guys are going wrong, and how to get back on track.  

Something with clear steps to follow for rediscovering passion and sex that feels intimate, connecting, playful, and pleasurable with your partner.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's where we come in...

Bringing Sexy Back!

Let me tell you more…

Hey there!

I’m Dr. Erica Marchand.

 

The licensed psychologist, couples therapist and sex therapist behind Bringing Sexy Back!

I’m all about helping you have a more satisfying relationship with your partner, sexually and otherwise! 

Because what happens outside of the bedroom affects what happens IN the bedroom, and vice versa. By addressing both, we get the spark back.

Here's what Bringing Sexy Back involves:

It's an 8-week, self-paced online course based on proven principles from couples therapy and sex therapy to help you and your partner identify and fix barriers to passion and intimacy and create a satisfying romantic and sexual relationship.

Bringing Sexy Back is based on my 3 B's framework for having a hot relationship - Bonding, Breathing Room, and Bedroom IQ.

By addressing all 3 aspects of your relationship, you will be able to see clearly where the problems are and get concrete tools to improve things.

 

 

 

Here's an overview of what you can expect in Bringing Sexy Back:

Introduction to the Course: This section explains the importance of reigniting the spark in relationships, emphasizing that it requires a conscious decision and a set of actions. It also addresses common concerns like a partner's non-participation or serious relationship problems, and outlines initial action steps for the course.

 

Lesson 1 - Bonding (Closeness): This lesson focuses on the significance of a strong bond as the foundation for a lasting relationship, covering emotional and physical intimacy, shared goals, and mutual support. It then details strategies for building these bonds, such as understanding each other's needs, using love languages, and engaging in rituals of connection.

 

Lesson 2 - How bonds get broken and built: This lesson explores common obstacles to bonding and closeness, including fighting, bickering, and betrayal of trust. It explains that by recognizing these behaviors, couples can learn how to build and maintain their connection.

 

Lesson 3 - Breathing Room: This lesson highlights the importance of individual space and self-sufficiency for maintaining desire and a spark in a relationship. It covers concepts like tending one's own flame, healthy independence, and acknowledging external interests without threat to the relationship.

 

Lesson 4 - Bedroom IQ - Self-Assessment and Where to Focus: This lesson is designed to help individuals assess the current state of their sexual intimacy, both individually and as a couple. It encourages identifying areas of strength and areas needing improvement, and provides guidance on addressing common individual and couple-related sexual problems.

 

Lesson 5 - Bedroom IQ - Knowing what you want and getting what you need: This lesson emphasizes the importance of sexual self-awareness, enabling individuals to understand their own desires and preferences. It also focuses on the role of positive and constructive sexual communication to ensure needs are met.

 

Lesson 6 - Bedroom IQ - Secrets of a Couples Therapist: This lesson reveals specific strategies used by therapists to help couples improve their sexual intimacy, addressing common challenges like anxiety, performance pressure, and lack of initiation. It provides practical tools for both "no sex" and "some sex" scenarios, and individual and couple-focused techniques.

 

Bonus - Bringing Sexy Back Forever: This concluding lesson stresses that maintaining the spark in a relationship is a continuous, lifelong process requiring ongoing intention and prioritization. It encourages participants to view the course as an evolving guide, revisiting tools and principles as their relationship changes.

 

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Why join now?

I have helped tens of thousands of women and couples all over the world create truly satisfying sex lives and relationships, and I would love to help you next.

Whether you have been married for 30 years or are starting a new relationship, you are in the right place.

I have all the tools and resources you need no matter what stage of your relationship you are in.

If your goal is to have a hot, fun, satisfying sex life and feel connected to your partner, I’ve got you covered.

 

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Why trust me rather than all the other relationship coaches and therapists out there?

After over a decade as a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy and sex therapy, I know what it takes to have a fulfilling sex life, what gets in the way, and how to fix things. I help couples do it everyday.

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And why trust yourself to be able to do this?

Here’s what I know about you…

You are clearly motivated and want better for yourself and your partner (otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this)!

You have amazing love and caring for your partner, and you’ve been resilient through the ups and downs.

And, your relationship has MASSIVE potential but…

You're frustrated.
You and your partner have tried talking about this before, but either it devolves into a fight, or you pour your heart out and then nothing really changes.

You feel overwhelmed.
You’ve got a partnership that you want to take care of, but also probably a job and maybe kids, parents, a dog, a cat, a bird...oh! And yourself, when you can find the time. :/ You’re good at juggling, but every once in a while you just want something to be easy!

 

You're confused.
You and your partner used to not be able to keep your hands off each other. Or at least sex was easier than it is now. You have no idea how you guys went from spending entire weekends in bed together, to now having to look at the calendar to remember the last time you had sex. 

 

You are at times exhausted by all this.
You’re tired from alllll the stuff you have to take care of on a daily basis, but also tired of this struggle! Even if you and your partner aren’t arguing about sex, it’s always in the back of your mind. And the weight of that is so tiring.

 

And sometimes, you even feel defeated.
You might sometimes think that you guys just can’t get through this. Maybe you just have to resign yourself to a sexless relationship. Or to unsatisfying sex every once in a while. Or to the arguments about sex that happen kind of like clockwork. Maybe you’ve even thought about opening up your relationship to solve the problem. You might be concerned that you or your partner might go outside the relationship to get your needs met. It’s such a heavy, difficult weight to carry that you sometimes think, f*** it, I’m done trying. 

When it comes to challenging moments like these in relationships, it’s normal to wonder if you and your partner really have what it takes...

 

After all, this is why so many relationships end without reaching their sexual potential.

People lack clarity on what to do next.

They struggle with confidence because nothing they’ve tried has worked.

They don’t know how to have a conversation with their partners about “needs” and “wants” in a way that draws their partner in, and not pushes them away.

But here's the good news... a great intimate relationship isn’t about luck, it’s an intentional process that any couple can learn. 

 

 

 

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To Sum Up…

Bringing Sexy Back is A Couples’ Roadmap to Passion, Desire, and Satisfying Sex.

This framework was designed with your success in mind.

It was created by me, a licensed psychologist with 15+ years of experience as a sex and relationship therapist who knows exactly what it takes to dust off your sex life and make it sizzle again!

Follow my 3 B’s framework and it will guide you from feeling disconnected, rejected, and frustrated to emotionally connected and communicating effectively about sex and intimacy.

Whether you're in a new relationship or have been married for over 30 years, The 3 B’s framework helps you figure out what your next steps should be.

How good will it feel to have...

  • The confidence and skills to ask your partner for what you want without alienating them or having them shut down.

  • Knowing exactly what to say to stay connected and build intimacy with your partner.

  • The ability for you and your partner to feel aligned and to find harmony around sex and intimacy.

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Here’s what you get when you join today:

(1) Bringing Sexy Back (a $597 value):


My 8-week self-paced program that takes you step-by-step through:
- Creating a connection that makes you feel safe, supported, and loved.
-  Remembering what attracted you to each other in the first place, and learning how to want each other again
- Knowing how to turn yourself and your partner on, and exactly what to do next that you’ll both enjoy

(2) Bonus #1 - Get Exactly What You Want In Bed ($57 value)
A 3-part workshop to learn the magic words that will have your partner begging to satisfy your every need and start having mind-blowing sex by this weekend.

(3) Bonus #2 - What’s Holding You Back ($57 value)
A 3-part workshop that pinpoints exactly what’s holding you back from orgasm so you can unlock the ability to enjoy the big O with yourself and your partner.

(4) Bonus #3 - Focus On Pleasure ($57 value)
A 3-part workshop to learn how to block out the world to unlock maximum pleasure during sex, by yourself and with your partner.

 

(5) Bonus #4 - Feel Great Naked ($57 value)
A 5-day class for learning to be happy in your own skin, plus feel sexy and confident — in the bedroom, and in everyday life.

 

That's an $825 value for $497 - less than the cost of two couples therapy sessions with me.

You'll get immediate access to your course and bonuses when you sign up, so you can get started right away.

 

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How would it feel to have a framework to follow that guides you to a life of passion, desire, and intimacy, plus the guidance of an experienced couples therapist in the process?

Don't let the hard times drag on. Take this opportunity to invest in yourself and your relationship today. You’ll be glad you did, and will enjoy the rewards for a lifetime.

 

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Frequently Asked Questions 

1. Can I sign up for Bringing Sexy Back later?
Yes. But why wait?

2. What if I want to do it but my partner isn’t sure? Do I have to do this with my partner? Can I do it alone?
It’s great if both partners are involved because then you have a shared understanding of the material, BUT you’ll still get huge benefits even if only one of you decides to do the course. You’ll gain your own understanding of your sexual relationship that you can use to make changes on your end, which will inevitably affect your partner as well.

 

3. We have a million things going on, do we have to stick to a certain schedule?
Nope! You can do one lesson a week, or every two weeks, or every month, or whatever works for your schedule. The course can be completely self-paced.

4. How long do we have to complete the program?
You can have access for as long as you want, so there’s no deadline to meet. You can go at your own pace, revisit lessons when needed, and even do it again if you want to. There’s no schedule to stick to or any cohort to keep up with.

5. We’re LGBTQIA+ / we’re non-monogamous / our relationship is unique…is this course for us?
Yep! The course is designed to be inclusive of any couple who wants to examine and improve their sex life, not just straight couples or people in monogamous or “traditional” relationships.

6. What if we are a couple who doesn’t have intercourse for one reason or another, but are still sexual…is this course relevant for us?
Yes! Sex doesn’t have to mean intercourse, and I know that many couples don’t have intercourse for a variety of reasons. This course is to understand and improve the sex life that YOU have, whatever that includes.

 

7. Does signing up for this course mean we’re bad at sex?
No! Sex is a living, breathing, evolving part of a relationship. Most couples at some point hit a roadblock or transition in their sexual relationship that requires some adjustment or re-setting. And sometimes you just want to improve on something that’s already pretty good! Signing up for the course just means that you’re proactive and you care about your sex life, nothing more.

8. What is the refund policy for Bringing Sexy Back?

You can try the course risk-free for 30 days. If you don't love it, just email me within that timeframe at drerica@bestrelationshipever.com, and I'll refund your payment, no questions or hassles.

 

Here's what people have to say about working with me on this...

 

Testimonial from Tasha P.:

“I joined this after starting a new relationship. It helped me to not be afraid to talk about my feelings, as I’m trying to unlearn bad habits and practice healthy ones. The workshop gets a full 5 out of 5 from me. I’d recommend it to a best friend wanting to foster healthier relationships.”

Testimonial from Kathy T.:

“After being widowed for 8 years, I’m starting a new relationship and needed a refresher course. The course gave me the confidence to improve my communication skills and helped me sort out my priorities in improving my sexual relationship. It met and exceeded my expectations, earning a 5 out of 5. I believe this workshop is valuable for any woman seeking to clarify her doubts and enhance her relationship. I thoroughly enjoyed the session and hope to see more in the future.”

 

Testimonial from Nicole:

“I joined the course out of a need to communicate better with my partner about our sex life. The workshop helped me to know I wasn’t alone and gave me the confidence to start a conversation and to face what I had been trying to ignore. I give the workshop 5 stars out of 5 on meeting my expectations and would definitely recommend it to other women.”

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